Jennifer and Brad have this aspect in synastry, and it is a very close contact in their chart. Venus square Mars can generate a lot of excitement and desirability in a relationship, and there is often a strong sexual attraction between these two. You only need to look at the mythological relationship between these Gods. Venus the Goddess of love and Mars the God of war had a passionate love affair, behind her husband's back. In many traditional and modern schools of thought, a contact between Venus and mars alone is not one of marital stability, much more Saturn is needed. What the contact does tell us about - is each individuals desires and drives. In this case Jen and Brad both have very different styles of relating that at times created friction.
Jen has Venus in Aries and she likes the challenge of a relationship but she doesn't really like her relationships to become too predictable. At times the pursuit of an elusive love object can be more comfortable. Venus in Aries possesses a strong competitive spirit in regards to relationships. When this type of Venus wins her prized lover, she is filled with self-worth and feels desirable and attractive. Jennifer did bag one of the most desirable men in Hollywood at the time!! And losing in love to another woman (if that was the case) would have affected her self-esteem and sense of attractiveness quite profoundly.
There is a conflict of desires between them and it can inflame their passion for one another, but love can also burn out quickly with this contact. Brad has Mars in Capricorn and he approaches life with great determination and is committed to long term goals. Jennifer's Venus in Aries may not reach such an agreeable compromise with him, and Venus is in detriment in this sign. Venus in Aries can show a real independent streak and reflects a woman who needs to satisfy her own desires first before making those long term plans in a relationship.
Brad Pitt has four planets in Capricorn and this is a little too fitting for his role in The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, for most Capricorn's are born old and grow younger in spirit, but in thr case of Benjamin body too! Both Aniston and Pitt separated after 7 years (seven year itch). The reason for the split was irreconcilable differences. A scandal broke out in Hollywood that Angelina Jolie was the cause for their separation. We still talk about Jennifer, Brad and Angelina in the same breath as if they are engaged in an ongoing love triangle.
Jen's need to do her own thing and Brad's need to plan ahead can cause some friction. To successfully work out these chinks in a realtionship both of them need to reach a compromise. Brad can act defensive and she asserts her desires even more powerfully. To be honest these two had a good run in their relationship and seven years in today's 'short term romances' is a committed relationship. A look at Jen's chart at the time of the breakup is quite revealing in terms of how she was feeling. At the time of the divorce transiting Saturn squared Saturn touching her Midheaven; she is forced to look at long term commitments. A decision made at this time is often serious with long term consequences. Transiting Pluto conjuncted her natal Moon and her emotions are extremely raw and powerful at her marriage breaks down. Moon-Pluto can reflect feelings of betrayal, and will often symbolise a death of security and safety in relating(Moon). The situation reflected a final outcome of fate. The conjunction triggered off her own natal Moon square Pluto and below is the details about her turbulent and painful (Pluto) relationship with her mother (Moon).
JENNIFER ANISTON hasn't spoken to her mother NANCY for four years - but it is only now that she feels real pain about the estrangement.
The sexy FRIENDS actress, 32, has revealed that her marriage to hunky actor BRAD PITT, 38, has helped her get over the problems she has with her mother, and accept responsibility for things she has done as an adult - rather than blaming them on uncaring Nancy.
In a frank interview, Jennifer sobbed as she said, "I still can't believe I got married and my mother has never met this person I married." The climax of Jennifer's anguish was the "torturous decision" to exclude her mother from her wedding to Pitt last year.
Jennifer says of living life with her ex-model mother, "I don't know if I would have known how beautiful she was if she wasn't always pointing out how unbeautiful I was."
The time was ripe to heal old wounds from the past, but Pluto has a tendency to destroy all lunar security first. There is always an element of mistrust within her, and this is amplified through the mother-daughter relationship. I can't help but root for Jennifer because she seems such a nice person. It was a very difficult time and hopefully she has healed her past hurt and doesn't hold on to resentment.
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